Lifestyle Question #4: What type of guys do you hook up with? I get this question ALL THE TIME on here. Honestly, I have no type. My hubby says this all the time, when we go to lifestyle events he says it’s hard to figure out with couples I would be down to play with because my taste is all over the board. The big strong younger muscular types are what you would think I would be into the most but it’s not the case. I am more attracted to a person's personality, I know that sounds like BS but it’s honestly true. I need to feel an emotional connection with a couple before I would want to fuck them.